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When my first child was born,my mother-in-law said to me:'Motherhood is wonderful just as long as you remember that A Mother's Place is in the Wrong.No matter what you do,your children will blame you.



Since that time,almost nine years ago,I have carefully monitored mothers and their growing offspring to verify this maxim,and found that indeed it contains much truth.



For example,if a mother stints herself to the point of starvation to send her darling to a good boarding school,the darling will turn round years later and accuse her of being a snob who deprived her of everyday family life.



If ,on the other hand,a mother sends her little lamb to the local neighbourhood school,the little lamb will grumble years later that his parents did not give a fig for education and that is why he is illiterate and on the dole.


If a woman has a job her children will speak mournfully of the experience of being latch-key kids who never knew what is was to come home to the joy and security of a mum baking bread in the kithcen.



If a woman does not work,her daughter will afterwards describe her old mum as a 'suburban cabbage'who never'fulfilled herself.



If a woman endures a painful and difficult marriage for the sake of the children,she will be told by those children that she was an absolute fool to put up with it and should have walked out years ago.



If she considers it to be best to end the marriage,they will accuse her of causing them'paternal deprivation syndrome'and obliging them to grow up in 'a one-parent situation'.



If yoiu try to shield your children from the weary realities of life,they will say your were absurdly overprotective.



If you try to share your troubles with them,they will say thar you overburdened them with responsibility and cheated them of their childhood.



If you have but a single child, the child will say say afterwards that you selfishly deprived it of siblings, and will tell sad stories about the lonliness of its childhood.



If you have two children, they will describe their family background as typical, steretyped, neurotic, introverted -- a nuclear family.

Truely, a mother's place is in the wrong -- and, yet, it goes on even unto the third generation.



When your children encount trouble or difficulties as adults, in their own marriage or in their personalities, whom do you blame? You've got it in one: mother!

TO MY LOVING DAD…..

As a hand in my failure
With a grand motive motto
You take me through ages
To a bright new living world

Ever in my life time
Never I do hate you
Sings your glory
praise your wisdom

For a cheerful tomorrow
You take me through ages
You gave me enough care
And provide me with everything

You sacrificed for me
Your whole life time
Am thankful to good god
For giving me you daddy

I’ll keep up your spirit
Ever in my whole life
Will try to make your dream
Real in my future

Sorry for everything
Happen from my life side
Oh I do believe you with
I can conquer this world

When I fell in decry
You give me a deed spirit
You taught me many lessons
Which made me a winner

I walk into my this life
Seeing you a s my god
As a guide in my future
You enlighten my path

Love you too much daddy
Love you too much my lord…..

The Battlefield

They dropped like flakes, they dropped like stars,
Like petals from a rose,
When suddenly across the June
A wind with fingers goes.

They perished in the seamless grass, --
No eye could find the place;
But God on his repealless list
Can summon every face.

Equality of opportunity in the twentieth Century Has Not Destroyed the Class System

These days we hear a lot of nonsense about the ‘great classless society’. The idea that the twentieth century is the age of the common man has become one of the great clichés of our time. The same old arguments are put forward in evidence. Here are some of them: monarchy as a system of government has been completely discredited. The monarchies that survive have been deprived of all political power. Inherited wealth has been savagely reduced by taxation and, in time, the great fortunes will disappear altogether. In a number of countries the victory has been complete. The people rule; the great millennium has become a political reality. But has it? Close examination doesn’t bear out the claim.
It is a fallacy to suppose that all men are equal and that society will be leveled out if you provide everybody with the same educational opportunities. (It is debatable whether you can ever provide everyone with the same educational opportunities, but that is another question.) The fact is that nature dispenses brains and ability with a total disregard for the principle of equality. The old rules of the jungle, ‘survival of the fittest’, and ‘might is right’ are still with us. The spread of education has destroyed the old class system and created a new one. Rewards are based on merit. For ‘aristocracy’ read ‘meritocracy’; in other respects, society remains unaltered: the class system is rigidly maintained.
Genuine ability, animal cunning, skill, the knack of seizing opportunities, all bring material rewards. And what is the first thing people do when they become rich? They use their wealth to secure the best possible opportunities for their children, to give them ‘a good start in life’. For all the lip service we pay to the idea of equality, we do not consider this wrong in the western world. Private schools which offer unfair advantages over state schools are not banned because one of the principles in a democracy is that people should be free to choose how they will educate their children. In this way, the new meritocracy can perpetuate itself to a certain extent: an able child from a wealthy home can succeed far more rapidly than his poorer counterpart. Wealth is also used indiscriminately to further political ends. It would be almost impossible to become the leader of a democracy without massive financial backing. Money is as powerful a weapon as ever it was.
In societies wholly dedicated to the principle of social equality, privileged private education is forbidden. But even here people are rewarded according to their abilities. In fact, so great is the need for skilled workers that the least able may be neglected. Bright children are carefully and expensively trained to become future rulers. In the end, all political ideologies boil down to the same thing: class divisions persist whether you are ruled by a feudal king or an educated peasant.

The Jewelry Store

The Jewelry Store

Every glass doorway is unique to the beholder;
it answers every need for each traveler.
We come out; we travel back; we go inside.
We travel here and there and return.
We open the backdoor to discovery
to find white diamonds on every oak leaf,
on every grass blade, in each dropp of water;
jewels are strewn around every inch in creation.
The traveler can have all the gems they want—
a diamond, an emerald, or even a ruby.